Respect is...

• using your vote in elections, because people in the past died for the right to have a vote (especially if you're a woman)
• respecting the Earth you walk on and our fellow beings that live on it (both human and animal - i.e. real people not imaginary ones)
• remembering your ancestors and honouring their contributions to the present (not burying their remains in some obscure place and then forgetting about them)
• honouring knowledge and wisdom wherever it may be found

(please add your own ideas of respect in the comments)

Finding a Compromise - Keeping Places

Respect For the Dead

In any discussion of what to do with human remains, I think we should start from the assumption that almost everyone respects the dead. But it is how that respect is expressed that is currently a source of conflict.

Some have argued that respect can only be expressed by not disturbing the dead; or if they are disturbed by accident or because of development work, then they must be reburied as soon as possible. This is, however, a view that was not necessarily held by our ancestors. It may also be a result of squeamishness about death, not wanting to see human remains on display. It is certainly true that many cultures prefer their remains not to be disturbed, and indeed the integrity of the burial is one of the duties we owe to the dead (de Baets, 2004), along with memory and justice. But if the resting place is long-forgotten, then the person has long since passed out of memory, and so archaeologists are at least benefiting the ancestors by perpetuating their memory.